He will be unsure every time you go to kiss him if you are going to run away or stay there. Timing the Tenderness When women kiss for the first time, they notice and welcome the romance and timing of making it special. After some time thinking about kissing you, he finally decides to just go for it. No response, no reaction, no reciprocation. I mean, let's face it. From the intonation of phrases uttered, the innuendo of words spoken, and down to the restrained desire in the eyes. Some gentle teasing is great, but when it becomes too much, he can get frustrated and angry at being led on all the time. Sarah, for example, uses her eyelashes. You are still getting used to each others' likes and dislikes when it comes to hooking up.